What people say
Words from residents
and their families
These are honest accounts from people who have spent time at Lai Yuen — some as residents, others as family members who visit regularly.
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Resident and family reviews
Lau Chun-wai
Son of resident — Kowloon City
My mother had lived alone in Tsz Wan Shan for twelve years after my father passed. We worried about her, but she was stubborn about moving. Lai Yuen was the first place she agreed to try, and within a month she was playing mahjong three times a week and had made friends with two women who had grown up in the same district as her. She is more settled now than she has been in years.
May 2025
Wong Mei-ling
Resident — joined April 2025
I was very hesitant. I did not want to feel like I was in hospital when I had not done anything wrong. But here I cook nothing and worry about nothing, and yet the day feels like my own. I go to the calligraphy session on Tuesdays — I hadn't written with a brush since secondary school — and last week I made a small piece I was actually proud of.
June 2025
Chan Ka-yee
Daughter of resident — Kwun Tong
The staff remember small things — that Ba prefers his soup on the side, that he doesn't like the television in the common room too loud. Those details matter enormously when you are leaving a parent somewhere and trusting other people to look after them. I visit twice a week and I have never once felt like I was interrupting. The door is genuinely open.
April 2025
Ho Bak-cheung
Companion Circles member — Ngau Chi Wan
I come on Monday and Thursday mornings for the circles. I still live in my own flat two streets away, which I like — I am not ready to give that up. But the mornings here give the week a structure and I see the same faces every time. One man, Old Fong, has become a proper friend. We disagree about almost every hand of mahjong, which is very enjoyable.
May 2025
Tsang Hau-yim
Resident — joined February 2025
The food is the thing I mention first when people ask. Proper Cantonese cooking — rice done right, a decent congee in the morning, good soup every lunch. My grandchildren come on Saturday mornings and they usually stay for dim sum. I like that they see this as a normal place, not something to visit out of duty.
June 2025
Luk Fong-yi
Niece of resident — Wong Tai Sin
We looked at three places before Lai Yuen. The others were larger and in some ways more modern, but they felt clinical. Here it feels like a household that happens to have professional staff. The coordinator Chan Yiu-lan was very patient with our questions during the visit and followed up a few days later with additional information we hadn't thought to ask for. Small gesture, but it mattered.
April 2025
In more detail
Three resident journeys
The challenge
Mr Yip, 78, had become increasingly withdrawn after retiring. His daughter noticed he had stopped going out and was spending most days watching television alone. She was working full-time and could not be present as often as she wanted.
The approach
Mr Yip started with Companion Circles three mornings a week. He was introduced gradually — a cup of tea, an observation game of cards — before joining the mahjong table at his own pace over several weeks.
The outcome
Within two months Mr Yip was one of the more regular attenders and had started recommending the circles to a neighbour. His daughter says he now rings her with news rather than waiting for her calls. That, she told us, was the change she had hoped for.
The challenge
Mrs Ng, 83, moved to Lai Yuen after managing her own household in Kowloon City for decades. She was fiercely independent and anxious about losing that sense of control in a new environment.
The approach
The team were careful not to over-manage her first weeks. She was given space to arrange her room as she wished, invited but never required to join mealtimes in the shared dining room, and given a direct line to the duty coordinator for any concerns.
The outcome
Mrs Ng told us at her three-month review that she felt she had not lost her independence — she had simply outsourced the inconvenient parts. She now leads an informal opera listening group on Friday afternoons and has opinions about the programme that she shares freely.
The challenge
A family from Shatin wanted cultural activities and social engagement for their father — a retired teacher — but he was not ready for a full residential move. Distance made it hard for family to provide consistent company.
The approach
Mr Kwok joined the Cultural Studio, attending calligraphy sessions and the Cantonese opera afternoons. He continued to live in his own flat, treating Lai Yuen as an activity base rather than a residence.
The outcome
After six months, Mr Kwok chose to move to the Residence Plan — his own decision, taken without pressure. He told his family that he had simply noticed he preferred being here during the day, and the logical step was to stop commuting home. His teaching background turned out to be very welcome in the calligraphy sessions.
By the numbers
Community in figures
9+
Years welcoming residents in Kowloon
4.7
Average satisfaction score (out of 5), 2024
87%
Residents who said they would recommend us
200+
Residents and circle members over the years
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